DEVELOP A POSITIVE SELF-ESTEEM

American novelist Nathaniel Hawthorne said,

  ''No man can for any considerable time wear one face to himself and 
   another to the multitude without finally getting bewildered as to which
   is the true one''

Self-esteem is the way we feel about ourselves. When we feel good within, our performances goes up and our relationships improve both at home and at work. The world looks nicer. The reason is that there is a correlation between our feeliings and behaviour. But to develop a positive self-esteem, you need to understand the kind of person you are and how to fit in.

When it comes to positive self-esteem, each of us must answer the critical question, ''Who am I?'' The answer to this provides the motivation to develop a positive self-esteem. It is fundamental for the identification of core values. And it helps to establish emotional security. Because, our sense of security - or lack of it - often drives what we do.

How do you identify yourself? Where does your personal value come from? What is your motivation as it relates to success and significance in life? The answers to these questions determine your attitude which will impact your self-esteem. No matter how hard you try, you cannot consistently behave in a way that is inconsistent with how you see yourself. Thus, a strong and accurate sense of identity is essential.

You must understand that nobody lives in isolation. What you do affects me and what I do affects you. We are connected. You must realise that we are sharing this planet and must learn to behave responsibly. So, sit down, look within and understand your kind of person. Then apply yourself to the positive ways of life. And begin to see yourself that way.
Changing the world through positive influence. Cheers.